18 Feb I'm so sorry, Linda. Have you tried asking him to do this whole challenge with you ? Even if you start on day 1, then perhaps you could start talking about your sex life without it being a blame thing. I think most couples just need more honest communication, and more understanding of where each other is. “Kiss me, caress me, take me,” Linda tempted. “I want to. I will. I'm yours and only yours.” Bob responded. “Be gentle.” Bob was ready and willing—until he remembered that he had not used a condom at the whorehouse. Venereal disease, his worst sexual fantasy, could now be a reality. What if he had contracted VD?. 14 Aug Seduction, for me, is no longer candlelight, roses and satin sheets. At age 72 and after 53 years of marriage, the lure of the seven-letter word hidden on my Scrabble rack, waiting to be discovered, is the best aphrodisiac there is. If I am clever, I can move those letters up and down, from side to side and in.